Tuesday, January 31, 2012

Dinner, Old Stereos, and Don't Ask Questions

Mr. Weston's recovery is going well.  He is up and about and we have named his crutches  - Betty and Al.  Thank you to those of you who sent good wishes.  So very kind and most appreciated.

Yesterday while at work, I picked up my phone and heard, "Hello, gorgeous."  Thinking that it was a lunatic I was about to hang up but quickly recognized the voice of my always-makes-one-feel-good Stereo Friend.   "You need a night off from nursing.  Come over and wine will be handed to you at the door."

How could I refuse?  Besides, it was plain that Mr. Weston was relieved to have a night off from his "Are you following the doctor's instructions?" nurse.  He was left in the capable yet more lenient paws of Nurse Puppy Weston.

My Stereo Friend kept his promise. He handed me a glass of wine while his partner took my coat.  Wine in hand, I was ushered to the stereo and encouraged to pick out a stack of albums to play during dinner.    What a treat.  What a collection.  He has albums as well as 45s for which one must attach a little tower type adapter in order to play.






Turntable with gadget for 45s.
Looking through the albums was like being sent back in time to when my brother and I were really little and my parents and their friends entertained.


When my parents hosted parties, my mother would put on an exotic ensemble and let me help by putting potato chips in a bowl and pressing the on/off button on the blender as she made clam dip.  (As an aside, I asked her to make this for Christmas and I all but took the bowl to another room to enjoy on my own.)


Dad would be in a shirt and tie - his coat hanging on a dining room chair ready to put on when the guests came.  My brother would help him make a fire in the fireplace and bring out glasses for drinks.

When others entertained, if a sitter was not available, we were made to go in our loathsome pajamas.  This was especially mortifying at one house since I was in love with the teen aged son who could not distinguish me from a tree.

Depending on the house, we were relegated to an exercise room with cot and a cast off TV, a frilly, floral guest room where we were  instructed not to touch anything, or a basement den with a bar.  This den was a conundrum of adult wonderments.  There was a pool table, a German helmet with a bullet hole in it, and this light:


This is it exactly. 
Cannot believe that I found a photo of it.
We were instructed not to even go near the pool table but one night out of boredom, mixed our own drinks at the bar.  Our creations were distasteful to juvenile palettes so we poured the drinks back into the  bottles.  Apparently the wrong bottles as we were sternly informed when trouble ensued.

At these parties, the adults would play albums on their old stereos.  They seemed to have hundreds of albums.   I remember this one in particular because it was highly annoying to adults to have children inquire about this young lady's unusual attire.

"Don't ask questions!"
my exasperated father would exclaim.

My stereo friend has this album and of course I selected it to play. Dinner was enhanced by the Tijuana Brass.  Alas, there was no clam dip but this has been promised for next time.

T. and F., thank you again for your gracious hospitality.













Tuesday, January 3, 2012

A Fine Piece of Ice

Given the abundance of holiday pleasures, I had not been out walking in the field for about a week.   The other night we had a deluge of rain followed by very cold temperatures.  So imagine my delight when this morning I spotted a fine piece of ice.  There it was shining bright and white in the early light.  I immediately did a run and a slide across it.  It is not quite smooth, but it will do. 


I am far from an Olympic skater but I love it - especially on field ice.  Last year there was just too much snow to ever have any ice. 

Skating at night is just divine.  There is quiet.  There are the stars and if we are very lucky a full moon.  We bring out lanterns and Thermos bottles of hot chocolate. 

When were growing up, Dad would flood the back yard during the winter and we would all go out and skate at night.  Mom was exceptionally good.  On the flip side, there are some really hysterical photographs of my brother and I pitifully pretending that we are a famous Olympic pair. 

Before this, there are the photographs of my parents, their siblings, and friends night skating when they were much, much younger.  There is Mom spinning, Aunt P. on one leg, and Dad in a deer patterned sweater with a pile of his friends all down on the ice.  They are all laughing.  One can almost still hear it

From the recent past, we have photographs of my niece learning to skate with the assistance of folding chair.  Last time out,  Mom used the folding chair  - at least part time.  We were proud that she was out.

The alarm has been sounded and a night skate date is being set.  I hope that the ice lasts.  My skates are being sharpened tonight.

Monday, January 2, 2012

New Year's 2: Dino or Frank?

The Setting:  New Year's Day Brunch

Our host brought out a stack of vintage records that he has collected or inherited and  put them on a stereo that he has meticulously restored.  Thus came the question:  Who does it better?  Dean Martin or Frank Sinatra?  The tune? "I've Got My Love to Keep Me Warm."

Note:  This debate was just a little bit surreal given that we had just "seen" Dino and Frank the night before.

It was hugely nonsensical with admitted biases and uncertainties.  A few votes are listed below.

Frank:  He interprets the lyrics in his own way.

Dino:  He does not change the lyrics and sings all the words.

Frank:  He is swing-ier, so is the background music.

Dino:  He was more of a family man and had fewer wives. (Ouch!)

Frank/Dino: Maybe we could mix a duet and end this discussion.

No matter whom is deemed to do it better - this year or next, we love them both.

Best to all for the New Year!  Ring a ding ding.





Sunday, January 1, 2012

New Year's 1: Baubles, Bangles, and Beads

Celebrate the New Year!  Very best to everyone.





Oh my!  Yes!  They are still with us.  Sigh...
A favorite tune to dance to.  Sometimes Mr. Weston leads, sometimes I do...



10, 9, 8 ...
Confetti covered New Year!